Sunday, January 24, 2010

Can you define First Love?

Have you heard someone said "If i cant marry you, i'll remain single for the rest of my life."

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And...that is the exact sentence my first boyfriend told me a few years ago which i found it quite ridiculous and silly of coz! Haha. And till now, i can still hear the stupid vow in my ears though the silent grief is over (Guys don't really mean what they say, dont they?) Actually, I'm here not to talk about the past but i read someone's blog who seems resentful about a guy and that so-called brat left her for Heaven's sake which caused her to feel frustrated to death. So, for those who face the same situation or merely think they want to commit suicide as the last alternative, you may; if you think you are ready enough to be burned in the Hellfire...hehe. But in this special entry, i would like to dedicate this post to these bunch of broken-hearted people who love till lost, or who cry till dry. Everyone, here is my definition of first love:


First love is always sweet and yet painful. The feeling can last but it fades overtime once you met someone else. It teaches us many things; ways of falling in love and reasons to love someone. However, the results vary; it may last or it might slip away unconditionally. So, always treasure the ones that love you in return. He might not be the first-But once you find him, he could be your first love - once again.Coz loving someone new who knows to appreciate you is much better - and the feeling is like falling in love for the first time :)

With that, i rest my case.

With lots of love,
Snow WhiTe xx.

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

i understnd almost all except one part...- once again.Coz loving someone new who knows to appreciate you is much better -...actually...wut does it mean???

old dwarf said...

testing....

mambloss said...

miss..guys do mean what they said..its juz when..sumtimes girls was the reason why they changed..huhu..

old dwarf said...

agree with mamblos...girls alwez mengada2...

SnoW whiTe said...

Dear anonymous, it's better 2hav sum1 who truly loves you rather than waitin 4 a person who doesnt knw how 2appreciate ur love at all. You can kick him/her out in your life 4 a better future in other words.LOL.

and mambloss, i definitely agree with your opinion, but it's not always girls 2be the exact reason. It's the guys' low self-esteem that cause troublesome 4making a decision :p

old dwarf said...

from what i had experienced bfore....usually the next one is better than the previous...and find someone good attitude is not a guarantee to have a happy relationship....sometimes bad person can make us happy...u will understand that if u had the same experience like me...owh..please dun think it in bad way...it is just my opinion...

Niezam said...

First love is too ambiguous to be defined. You would experience it as early as during childhood and teenager.Sometimes you might fall in love without any strong reason.

However when it comes to the "first true love", it will be different story. People will do everything to succeed their relationship. Even to wait for his/her lover 1000 years to accept their love and make them sometimes overlooked to people who trying to win their heart. In live our lives , there are only enough for one big regret decision when it comes into love but we have to accept it with open heart as only Allah knows what is the best for us in the future.

SnoW whiTe said...

I think everyone has different experience/story about first love. It depends on you how to judge it from certain aspects. Thats' why ppl say "Love is like a box of chocolates"; you'll never knew what you're gonna get. But i bound to get the crunchy nuts - all the way.

old dwarf said...

"Love is like a box of chocolates"?? old dwarf is too old to eat chocolates...haha...just kidding...i like this topic actually...oh..and i hope yor 'prince charm' will appeared someday...keep updating yor blog...i will alwez leave a comment

Anonymous said...

First love is like you are trying for your first time in MUET test...It maybe excited or it may last with bad result!!!!

SnoW whiTe said...

If first love is being compared to the MUET test, i think the "Reading" part is the hardest task and the "speaking" part is the easiest of all; coz you can't really read other ppl's mind but you can always response 2their argument.LOL.

nazrin said...

eventhough theres a lot of stories,doubts and different views on "first love" from everyone,i think that when u truly fell in love with someone,no matter if it is the first, second or third.the pain u feel from that current relationship feels like the first time, the happiness feels greater and the break-up feels like the first time u broke up with someone. do u agree?

SnoW whiTe said...

Hi Nazrin,
I love your views. I do agree with the feeling you have in the current relationship is much greater than what you feel b4. You learn from mistakes, and that's what makes you happier.

In life, there is nobody perfect but everyone is perfectable.

heartless hero said...

first love suck!
dats my comment la..takdenye makne nye first love ni..kanak2 sedang membesar je...tp the scar mmg truk dari first love...

SnoW whiTe said...

u seem mad, heartless hero. but keep calm.

Old dwarf said...

poyo la heartless hero tu....hang xbukak ati hang lagi...tu pasai hang jd heartless...cian kat mu..haha

Wan Sujaihah Tsukushi said...

Falling in love is like the taste of chocolates~